Although love is communicated in a number of ways,our words have reflect the condition of our heart. For the next day resolve to demonstrate patience and say nothing negative to your spouse at all. IF the temptation arises, choose to say nothing at all. It's better to hold your tongue than to say something you will regret!
Love is patient! When you choose to be patient you learn to respond in a postive way to a negative situation. You are slow to anger. Love begins to help you extent mercy to those around you.Patient brings calm to the storm.
No one likes to be around an agry person.Anger never makes things better.It usually generates more problems. But patience stops things in thier tracks. It clears the air.
If your spouse offends you do you quicky retailate, or do you stay under control? Do you find anger is your emotional default? If so,are you spreading poison rather than love?
As sure as lack of patience will turn your home into a war, the practice of patience will foster peace. Patience is where love meets wisdom. Patience helps give your spouse permission to be human. It understands everyone fails. When a mistake is made, it chooses to give them more time than they deserve to correct it. It gives you the ability to hold on during the tough times in your relationship rather than bailing out under pressure.
Can your spouse count on a patient partner? Can they know locking thier keys in the car will be met with understanding than a lecture? Few people are hard to live with as an impatient person.
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