One of my goals is to get out of debt.If we could pay off all those extras loans we will have lots of extra money each month to play around with.My husband makes a good income all on his own but things happened as they seem to do in life- thus we took out loans.Now they are really bogging us down financially.The only true way to get ahead is to pay those loans off so we can move forward.
By working at home I can save commuting costs while bringing in an extra income to pay off the extra loans we have.
My goal is to focus on getting my car paid off and the extra loan we took out in January.After that I will work on another debt with the extra money I will be saving by having my car paid off.
Friday, March 26, 2010
10 Keys To Successful Parenting
It is important that we discipline in a way that teaches responsibility by motivating our children internally, to build their self-esteem and make them feel loved. If our children are disciplined in this respect, they will not have a need to turn to gangs, drugs, or sex to feel powerful or belong.
The following ten keys will help parents use methods that have been proven to provide children with a sense of well-being and security.
1 - Use Genuine Encounter Moments (GEMS)
Your child's self-esteem is greatly influenced by the quality of time you spend with him-not the amount of time that you spend. With our busy lives, we are often thinking about the next thing that we have to do, instead of putting 100% focused attention on what our child is saying to us. We often pretend to listen or ignore our child's attempts to communicate with us. If we don't give our child GEMS throughout the day, he will often start to misbehave. Negative attention in a child's mind is better than being ignored.
It is also important to recognize that feelings are neither right nor wrong. They just are. So when your child says to you, "Mommy, you never spend time with me" (even though you just played with her) she is expressing what she feels. It is best at these times just to validate her feelings by saying, "Yeah, I bet it does feel like a long time since we spent time together."
2 - Use Action, Not Words
Statistics say that we give our children over 2000 compliance requests a day! No wonder our children become "parent deaf!" Instead of nagging or yelling, ask yourself, "What action could I take?" For example, if you have nagged your child about unrolling his socks when he takes them off, then only wash socks that are unrolled. Action speaks louder than words.
3 - Give Children Appropriate Ways to Feel Powerful
If you don't, they will find inappropriate ways to feel their power. Ways to help them feel powerful and valuable are to ask their advice, give them choices, let them help you balance your check book, cook all our part of a meal, or help you shop. A two-year-old can wash plastic dishes, wash vegetables, or put silverware away. Often we do the job for them because we can do it with less hassle, but the result is they feel unimportant.
4 - Use Natural Consequences
Ask yourself what would happen if I didn't interfere in this situation? If we interfere when we don't need to, we rob children of the chance to learn from the consequences of their actions. By allowing consequences to do the talking, we avoid disturbing our relationships by nagging or reminding too much. For example, if your child forgets her lunch, you don't bring it to her. Allow her to find a solution and learn the importance of remembering.
5 - Use Logical Consequences
Often the consequences are too far in the future to practically use a natural consequence. When that is the case, logical consequences are effective. A consequence for the child must be logically related to the behavior in order for it to work. For example, if your child forgets to return his video and you ground him for a week, that punishment will only create resentment within your child. However, if you return the video for him and either deduct the amount from his allowance or allow him to work off the money owed, then your child can see the logic to your discipline.
6 - Withdraw from Conflict
If your child is testing you through a temper tantrum, or being angry or speaking disrespectfully to you, it is best if you leave the room or tell the child you will be in the next room if he wants to "Try again." Do not leave in anger or defeat.
7 - Separate the Deed from the Doer
Never tell a child that he is bad. That tears at his self-esteem. Help your child recognize that it isn't that you don't like him, but it is his behavior that you are unwilling to tolerate. In order for a child to have healthy self-esteem, he must know that he is loved unconditionally no matter what he does. Do not motivate your child by withdrawing your love from him. When in doubt, ask yourself, did my discipline build my child's self-esteem?
8 - Be Kind and Firm at the Same Time
Suppose you have told your five-year-old child that if she isn't dressed by the time the timer goes off, you will pick her up and take her to the car. She has been told she can either get dressed either in the car or at school. Make sure that you are loving when you pick her up, yet firm by picking her up as soon as the timer goes off without any more nagging. If in doubt, ask yourself, did I motivate through love or fear?
9 - Parent with the End in Mind
Most of us parent with the mindset to get the situation under control as soon as possible. We are looking for the expedient solution. This often results in children who feel overpowered. But if we parent in a way that keeps in mind how we want our child to be as an adult, we will be more thoughtful in the way we parent. For example, if we spank our child, he will learn to use acts of aggression to get what he wants when he grows up.
10 - Be Consistent, Follow Through
If you have made an agreement that your child cannot buy candy when she gets to the store, do not give in to her pleas, tears, demands or pouting. Your child will learn to respect you more if you mean what you say.
The following ten keys will help parents use methods that have been proven to provide children with a sense of well-being and security.
1 - Use Genuine Encounter Moments (GEMS)
Your child's self-esteem is greatly influenced by the quality of time you spend with him-not the amount of time that you spend. With our busy lives, we are often thinking about the next thing that we have to do, instead of putting 100% focused attention on what our child is saying to us. We often pretend to listen or ignore our child's attempts to communicate with us. If we don't give our child GEMS throughout the day, he will often start to misbehave. Negative attention in a child's mind is better than being ignored.
It is also important to recognize that feelings are neither right nor wrong. They just are. So when your child says to you, "Mommy, you never spend time with me" (even though you just played with her) she is expressing what she feels. It is best at these times just to validate her feelings by saying, "Yeah, I bet it does feel like a long time since we spent time together."
2 - Use Action, Not Words
Statistics say that we give our children over 2000 compliance requests a day! No wonder our children become "parent deaf!" Instead of nagging or yelling, ask yourself, "What action could I take?" For example, if you have nagged your child about unrolling his socks when he takes them off, then only wash socks that are unrolled. Action speaks louder than words.
3 - Give Children Appropriate Ways to Feel Powerful
If you don't, they will find inappropriate ways to feel their power. Ways to help them feel powerful and valuable are to ask their advice, give them choices, let them help you balance your check book, cook all our part of a meal, or help you shop. A two-year-old can wash plastic dishes, wash vegetables, or put silverware away. Often we do the job for them because we can do it with less hassle, but the result is they feel unimportant.
4 - Use Natural Consequences
Ask yourself what would happen if I didn't interfere in this situation? If we interfere when we don't need to, we rob children of the chance to learn from the consequences of their actions. By allowing consequences to do the talking, we avoid disturbing our relationships by nagging or reminding too much. For example, if your child forgets her lunch, you don't bring it to her. Allow her to find a solution and learn the importance of remembering.
5 - Use Logical Consequences
Often the consequences are too far in the future to practically use a natural consequence. When that is the case, logical consequences are effective. A consequence for the child must be logically related to the behavior in order for it to work. For example, if your child forgets to return his video and you ground him for a week, that punishment will only create resentment within your child. However, if you return the video for him and either deduct the amount from his allowance or allow him to work off the money owed, then your child can see the logic to your discipline.
6 - Withdraw from Conflict
If your child is testing you through a temper tantrum, or being angry or speaking disrespectfully to you, it is best if you leave the room or tell the child you will be in the next room if he wants to "Try again." Do not leave in anger or defeat.
7 - Separate the Deed from the Doer
Never tell a child that he is bad. That tears at his self-esteem. Help your child recognize that it isn't that you don't like him, but it is his behavior that you are unwilling to tolerate. In order for a child to have healthy self-esteem, he must know that he is loved unconditionally no matter what he does. Do not motivate your child by withdrawing your love from him. When in doubt, ask yourself, did my discipline build my child's self-esteem?
8 - Be Kind and Firm at the Same Time
Suppose you have told your five-year-old child that if she isn't dressed by the time the timer goes off, you will pick her up and take her to the car. She has been told she can either get dressed either in the car or at school. Make sure that you are loving when you pick her up, yet firm by picking her up as soon as the timer goes off without any more nagging. If in doubt, ask yourself, did I motivate through love or fear?
9 - Parent with the End in Mind
Most of us parent with the mindset to get the situation under control as soon as possible. We are looking for the expedient solution. This often results in children who feel overpowered. But if we parent in a way that keeps in mind how we want our child to be as an adult, we will be more thoughtful in the way we parent. For example, if we spank our child, he will learn to use acts of aggression to get what he wants when he grows up.
10 - Be Consistent, Follow Through
If you have made an agreement that your child cannot buy candy when she gets to the store, do not give in to her pleas, tears, demands or pouting. Your child will learn to respect you more if you mean what you say.
Monday, March 1, 2010
Telemarketing Jobs
Here are several good work at home telemarketing job leads. Go ahead and check them out.
Blue Zebra Appointment Setting - Appointment SetterRequirements for this position include 2+ years of outbound, business-to-business cold calling and appointment setting, and 2 - 5 years serving the business-to-business marketplace. Candidates must reside in either U.S. or Canada. See website for more details
. Brighten Communications - TelemarketingLooking for callers with previous telemarketing and cold calling experience. You will need a good working phone line (not cell phone) and have an unlimited flat rate long distance plan. Must have Windows 98 or newer operating system and a quiet working environment.
Extended Presence - Appointment Setting - Lead GenerationRequirements include appointment setting or lead qualifying experience, excellent communication skills, and ability to work unsupervised. Must have a computer with high-speed internet access and a phone line (land line) with unlimited long distance calling plan. Look for "Home Office" as Location in the job listings.
Intelemark - Home Based Appointment SettersSeeking top-line, home-based agents capable of navigating a B2B call, identifying the decision maker, and scheduling an appointment on behalf of the client. Must be professional, hard working and committed to success. Apply at the website.
Intrep - Sales Consultants - Appointment SettersMust have an extensive sales and marketing background, be able to set appointments with prospects of any level, and a complete understanding of all business related software. Also, need to pass personality and proficiency tests. See website for more information.
OPK Telemarketing - Sales - Lead Generation - Appointment SettingOPK Telemarketing Services is always excited to hear from hardworking self-starters with previous sales experience in a variety of fields. Should have a business background, good computer skills and great communication skills.
P.M.I. - Work from Home Appointment SettersRead through the website for information. See the "Jobs" page for details about the work involved. Contact PMI to get started on a trial basis to see if this work is suitable.
RepsForRent - Telemarketing JobsA minimum of 2 years outbound telemarketing experience or equivalent education is required. Must have Business to Business telemarketing experience. Ideal candidate will be available to work 30 hours a week and have experience using ACT, WinFax, Excel, and Word. Online application.
TeleReach - Appointment SettersLooking for people with cold calling, tele-prospecting, outside sales or appointment setting experience. Not hiring in the following states: CA, CT, FL, IL, MD, MI, MS, MT, ND, NH, NV, PA, or WA. See the website for more information.
Blue Zebra Appointment Setting - Appointment SetterRequirements for this position include 2+ years of outbound, business-to-business cold calling and appointment setting, and 2 - 5 years serving the business-to-business marketplace. Candidates must reside in either U.S. or Canada. See website for more details
. Brighten Communications - TelemarketingLooking for callers with previous telemarketing and cold calling experience. You will need a good working phone line (not cell phone) and have an unlimited flat rate long distance plan. Must have Windows 98 or newer operating system and a quiet working environment.
Extended Presence - Appointment Setting - Lead GenerationRequirements include appointment setting or lead qualifying experience, excellent communication skills, and ability to work unsupervised. Must have a computer with high-speed internet access and a phone line (land line) with unlimited long distance calling plan. Look for "Home Office" as Location in the job listings.
Intelemark - Home Based Appointment SettersSeeking top-line, home-based agents capable of navigating a B2B call, identifying the decision maker, and scheduling an appointment on behalf of the client. Must be professional, hard working and committed to success. Apply at the website.
Intrep - Sales Consultants - Appointment SettersMust have an extensive sales and marketing background, be able to set appointments with prospects of any level, and a complete understanding of all business related software. Also, need to pass personality and proficiency tests. See website for more information.
OPK Telemarketing - Sales - Lead Generation - Appointment SettingOPK Telemarketing Services is always excited to hear from hardworking self-starters with previous sales experience in a variety of fields. Should have a business background, good computer skills and great communication skills.
P.M.I. - Work from Home Appointment SettersRead through the website for information. See the "Jobs" page for details about the work involved. Contact PMI to get started on a trial basis to see if this work is suitable.
RepsForRent - Telemarketing JobsA minimum of 2 years outbound telemarketing experience or equivalent education is required. Must have Business to Business telemarketing experience. Ideal candidate will be available to work 30 hours a week and have experience using ACT, WinFax, Excel, and Word. Online application.
TeleReach - Appointment SettersLooking for people with cold calling, tele-prospecting, outside sales or appointment setting experience. Not hiring in the following states: CA, CT, FL, IL, MD, MI, MS, MT, ND, NH, NV, PA, or WA. See the website for more information.
Customer Service Jobs
Here are some companies that hire work from home customer service reps.All these companies have been verified.So give them a shot if you are looking to working from home.
MicahTek, Inc.
ClickNwork
Working Solutions Inc
West at Home
LiveOps
Alpine Access
Willow CSN Cyber Secretaries
Vera-A-Fast
MicahTek, Inc.
ClickNwork
Working Solutions Inc
West at Home
LiveOps
Alpine Access
Willow CSN Cyber Secretaries
Vera-A-Fast
Telemarketers/Team Leaders Wanted
My name is Karen Abrams, and I'm a Sr. Leads Manager with Your Advantage Leads, which is based in Charlotte, NC. We are a company who employ a small force of home workers to provide leads to our clients; mostly life insurance agents from across the US.
We are currently looking to increase our staff with a few new callers.
Telemarketers earn $8-$15 per lead on our predictive dialer, working from their homecomputers. Strong callers make $100+ per day setting call backs and appointments.
Pay is weekly via PayPal
.I'm looking for a few top callers who are available to work 4-5 hours per day,or more. Computer headset required.We will also be in need of Team Leaders within the next few weeks
Please email your resume or introduction including experience to:karenyal@aol.comKaren AbramsSr. Leads ManagerYour Advantage Leadskarenyal@aol.com
We are currently looking to increase our staff with a few new callers.
Telemarketers earn $8-$15 per lead on our predictive dialer, working from their homecomputers. Strong callers make $100+ per day setting call backs and appointments.
Pay is weekly via PayPal
.I'm looking for a few top callers who are available to work 4-5 hours per day,or more. Computer headset required.We will also be in need of Team Leaders within the next few weeks
Please email your resume or introduction including experience to:karenyal@aol.comKaren AbramsSr. Leads ManagerYour Advantage Leadskarenyal@aol.com
At Home Customer Service Reps.
We are in need of at home agents to take orders, answer chats and respond to emails along with other small tasks as needed.
This is a part time position 3-5 billable hours to start and pay rate is $5.50 per hour to start.
*Note - Pay rate and hours can change and/or be expanded upon mutual consent based on performance, completion of training and additional projects taken on.
Please send your resume to vasneeded (at) theperfectpear (dot) com.** Please include your resume in the body of the email** No Attachments
This is a part time position 3-5 billable hours to start and pay rate is $5.50 per hour to start.
*Note - Pay rate and hours can change and/or be expanded upon mutual consent based on performance, completion of training and additional projects taken on.
Please send your resume to vasneeded (at) theperfectpear (dot) com.** Please include your resume in the body of the email** No Attachments
Work With ADT
We are seeking highly motivated and energetic individuals for door to door marketing! How would you like to help protect homes and neighborhoods in your city by offering them a FREE home security system? Aistrope Marketing is currently looking for people to help us market this wonderful service across America through door hanger distribution.Job Description:*We will give you a list of neighborhoods in your city that have recently had a home break-in reported. *You simply go to those neighborhoods and pass out as many of our door hangers as you can. *For each sale you bring to us you earn $75.00 commission. *Paychecks will be sent out once a month.Become a part of something that is more than just a JOB! Help keep America a safe place to live. Be your own boss. Set your own hours. Make as much money as you want. The possibilities are endless. To apply please visit Aistrope Marketing - #1 Home Security System and click on Work With Us!
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